A woman who takes in your life this role is primarily focused on family life. For her the most important are children , than husband and others followed.
She is very focused on the children. She is able to devote her plans , pleasure and social life.
Sometimes also the job . Her whole mind is focused on taking care of caring , thinking of the other, preventing the supply of different contingencies. This attitude translates well to others , as well as her husband In fact she the same result over time , insteda of the life partner has an additional child or partners rebels. Then either at home is a short circuit or partner leaves the woman.
Ms. forties come to me at the time of her life tragedy. After many years , a well functioning relationship, in its view , suddenly one day, wthout any reason husband packed up and moved out.
- I am heartbroken - she says. Everything I had expected but not this one. We are a long-term relationship. We have one child – a daughter, who is the very importan for her father. I have a full time job and my husband has his own bussines and the mostly kept our family.
Daughter has the egsamines for the high school diploma. So we supported her to succed.
No results yet and do no know how it goes. We were a happy family. I do not understand what happened . My husband has always been fine. He took care at home and family and always slept in hous. There has never been such a situation he to watch for any moman.
And here two days ago , I come from the work and he pulls out the suitcase and he was getting into. I thought he goes on the mission and he says he brings to another woman and goes forever.
I always took care of him. Always thinking of him and then only about me. I cooked the delicious dinners at home, that is what he likes. When he sat down I was putting a pillow under his back and was comfortable to rest after a long day. I opt out of my television programs that he could watch him.
When he long not to return, I constantly looked out of the window in excitement or something he does not. And when the car pulls up I was ready to put dinner on the gas. I do not go to sleep until he arrived and he did me something like that.
- Did you ask him , why he was doing and if he said something to that? – I looked at her with pity, as already sensed what the problem is.
- Yes I asked right away and he told me , he had enough my mothering and that he met the real woman , he knows he rover the year. And that goes to her. That wa waiting just for this moment, when daughter be after gradiuation, is to not get excited.
The woman in the role of the mather – wife washes, cleans, cooks, does not sleep, takes ouy care and forgets about you.
Becouse she is so filled this role so on the subconscious level he receives her as a mother, so that over time he becomes convenient , less and less he is included in house hold chores and lose intersted in sex.
His partner ceases to be attractive to him as a woman. Begins to seek pleasure else where and eventually goes away.
Man feels fullfield and masculine with a woman who knows her value. Put him challenges , treats him like a grown man, who can make it to that, he try to feel important and does, what a woman like.
When a woman sparing a man, when she thinks within him, when she is afraid of him, when she still teches him – that trades himas her child and also she try, she lose her attractiveness .
Men love women intriguing , mysterious, surprising , inspiring, inside warm, feminine, supportive. The role of the mother-wife is not compatible with it.
Such a woman, even if the begining was attractive and interesting with the passage of time she becomes boring and predictable.
My dear ladys let remember that our most loving man , he wants to make us happy. Let take happy and do not worry anything. Let us appreciate even the small gestures , do not cling to things . Let see your partner as super man, who we loved.
Let us to be able him to look in our eyes and be able him to see as strong, wise, our great, loving man. Than he always will be , becouse really , where will him be better?